DATING CULTURE

Why Is It Difficult to Find a Wife in America?

Chantana Sun
5 min readMay 24, 2023

There are over forty-seven million single men in the United States — that’s nearly half of the total population of male adults in the country.

If we break it down by age groups, you’ll find that there’s a substantial percentage of men between the ages of 30 to 65 years old and over who are still single.

You’d think that by the time you reach your prime years, you’ll be able to find a wife and settle down. But the reality is not everyone is going to be lucky in love.

an infographic showing the percentage of male adults in the us who are single according to age
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According to a recent survey conducted by Pew Research Center, nearly half of American adults say that dating has gotten harder for most of them over the last decade. A lot of men are having difficulties finding the right woman to date and marry within the country.

Some blame it on the liberal culture, high standards, and unrealistic expectations of local women. But whatever the cause may be, the bottom line is that a substantial number of American men are single and lonely.

an infographic showing the ratio of single men in the us who are looking and not looking for love
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This brings us to the question:

Are you one of them?

If you find it difficult to find a wife in the United States, maybe it’s time to take that search overseas. Give international dating a try.

The Appeal of Foreign Brides

A 2013 report from the U.S. Census Bureau reported that one in five married households (approximately 21% of the total marital population) in the United States has at least one foreign-born spouse.

Most of the foreign-born spouses, approximately 40%, came from Latin America, and about one in four came from Europe or Asia.

The appeal of having a foreign spouse is due to several personal reasons. Take into account that each one of us has different preferences in terms of choosing our life partner.

Some men prefer marrying a foreigner because of their exotic looks and some prefer foreign wives because of their values. Whatever your personal preferences are, there’s a good chance you’ll find your ideal woman overseas.

What is a singles tour?

Rather than scrolling through hundreds of web pages containing women’s profiles, meet foreign women who are interested in committed relationships in the flesh.

A singles tour is a week-long vacation in a foreign country of your choice. During this trip, you’ll be able to meet hundreds of single and marriage-minded women.

The main highlights are the Socials Events and the City Tours.

Socials are fun-filled and fully catered events with the goal of introducing you to hundreds of local women. There are matchmakers, translators, and local staff on standby. You won’t have to worry about not knowing what to do since you’ll be fully assisted throughout the event.

Next is the City Tours. Not only do you get to meet a sea of beautiful women, but you also get to explore a foreign country and see its breathtaking sights. To add, you get to bring a woman of your choice from the Socials to accompany you on the trip.

Fall in love with both the city and its women by joining a singles tour.

From Matt’s words, “Get off your butt. Get on a plane. Fly over here.”

Giving International Dating a Try

There are hundreds, if not thousands, of international dating sites out there. Some offer personal matchmaking services, some do not. That being said, opt for the former if you want a more successful international dating experience.

According to a market research report by IBISWorld, reputable dating sites that offer professional matchmaking services have become a rising trend this past decade. Though a bit more expensive compared to the popular dating app that lets you swipe left and right to get a match, sites with matchmakers provide a safer and higher certainty of finding a suitable potential partner.

Instead of facing disappointing online matches who do not share the same relationship goals as you, matchmakers will ensure that you are spending your time finding love wisely by presenting you with matches who share similar relationship goals as you. As such, it’s best to invest in them.

Testimonials From Clients

“I had a great time. Len was great and so was his team of interpreters. The hotel was wonderful and best of all, I met my soulmate there. We are engaged and working on the K1 fiance visa process now. Simply put, it was the wisest investment I’ve ever made.”

— Dustan S.

“I’ve got a lifelong friend now. I tell that to the guys all the time that there’s layers to these tours. It’s not just going over meeting a woman, there’s so much more to them.”

— Tour Client

“I accompanied my father here to help him find a wife or a girlfriend. But instead I found a girlfriend.”

— Tour Client

“The socials are the best way to find somebody you’re looking for. I’m very happy because I did find somebody special at the social.”

Tour Client

Lastly, here’s a heartwarming email from one of our clients:

“John, I am sooo happy that you provide this wonderful service, I could not find a beautiful young woman here in America who would give me the time of day. Without your service I would not have found this beautiful, young woman, I am engaged to. I would have had to settle for someone I really didn’t want or to be alone for the rest of my life. If a man is sincere and makes up his mind, what type of woman he is looking for before he goes, he can find the girl of his dreams with your romance tours, God bless you and keep up the good work!!! I couldn’t be happier.

Sincerely,

Dale K.”

Combat Loneliness, Find Love Among Foreign Women

If you’re one of the millions of American men suffering from romantic loneliness, this could be the sign you’ve been waiting for. Visit our website to start your journey.

You have nothing to lose.

What you do get is a chance to find your dream wife.

Sources:

United States Census Bureau, 2013 & 2019 Statistics

Pew Research Center, 2020 Publication

Katarzyna Adamczyk, Investigation of Mediating Role of Romantic Loneliness, 2016

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Chantana Sun
Chantana Sun

Written by Chantana Sun

Online Dating Top Writer | Relationship Consultant and Blogger for Asian Love Mates https://www.asianlovemates.com/

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