Cracking the Code of Asian Fetish

Have you ever been in a situation where you keep seeing this Asian girl at a place you go to all the time? Like perhaps a café, at the gym, or even at the supermarket?

And you simply can’t help but find her exceedingly attractive?

Everything about her simply oozes elegance and grace. And the way she carries herself? Whatever it is she’s got, she definitely has that X factor.

So you think about making your approach. After all, you share a similar routine so you have that in common.

You finally decide to make a move. That is, until a friend of yours lets out this tasteless comment

“Ohhhh, got yourself the yellow fever?” “You have a good eye, they say Asian chicks make the best wives!”

And you can’t help but feel offended on behalf of your crush. Not only that, but these objectifying comments make you seem like a shallow person for liking her.

When it’s obviously anything but.

The journey of courting an Asian lady might not always be easy and you’re likely to have a few hiccups before everything can go smooth-sailing from here. It’s inevitable to encounter these challenges, what with the persisting trend of online dating and interracial relationships.

You will need to cover all bases and learn exactly what you might be dealing with before you can start dating her.

A good question to start off with is…

Is it Love or a Fetish?

The first thing we notice about someone is their physical appearance.

This girl managed to catch your eye from afar with her sophisticated posture, which gives you the impression of confidence. (Nothing attracts people more than someone confident, after all).

Then, you zero in on her face. She has a button like nose, monolid eyes, thin but defined eyebrows, and pale, flawless skin.

This is proof enough that you are not looking at her based on her race. You’re attracted to her because she’s beautiful, simple as that.

People can get overly critical when they see a Caucasian man with an Asian woman by his side. They’d come to the conclusion that the man is probably with her because he has an “Asian fetish”.

What if he loves her regardless of her race? What if they are truly, madly, deeply in love with each other? These people will never know unless they walk in their shoes.

There still exist decent people out there who like these women for more than their stereotypes and distinctive Asian traits. Interracial couples wouldn’t have made it very far if not for their genuine love for each other.

Is Asian fetish still a thing?

Back then, it was a rarity to see Asians on the streets. Now, they have grown in numbers. They are currently being presented across the new media and their presence seems to have been normalized for the past few years.

Though there are still a few jokes about “yellow fever” or Asian fetishes here and there, they’re not as rampant as they were before.

With how progressive society seems nowadays, any previous misguided beliefs about Asian women seemed to change for the better. People are more open to dating Asian women today.

What makes an Asian woman attractive?

It’s not simply their physical characteristics that make Asian women appealing. Asian women are attractive to men primarily because of their character and personality.

There are also a bunch of other reasons why Non-Asian men find themselves inexplicably drawn towards these women.

Let’s break them down one by one, shall we?

1. They have close family ties.

Marriage-minded men, especially if they’re looking into building a family, often look for a woman who can match their level of commitment.

Who better than an Asian woman?

In many Asian countries, children are taught to have a collectivist mindset. This can be closely observed in an Asian household, where food is often shared, or when most, if not all relatives are invited to family parties.

2. They’re well-mannered.

You may have noticed certain traits in your Asian colleagues.

For instance, they bow their heads in 90 degrees, or put their hands together and bring their heads towards them.

These are some of the many signs of respect that Asians observe. They each have their own way of respecting their elders or superiors. But even so, they see to it that they never forget these gestures of respect.

3. They maintain themselves well.

Asians often put a high emphasis on hygiene and grooming. They are very particular when it comes to appearances.

Notice how that girl you like has supple and smooth skin? That’s probably because she has a tedious skin care routine. It’s considered a common hygiene practice, especially for East Asians.

4. They’re long term thinkers.

Asian women are raised to make disciplined choices. Before they can get what they want, they have to make short sacrifices along the way. This is what drives them to be able to succeed in their careers.

Once you do go around talking to the woman you’ve been eyeing, you’ll find yourself falling for her intellect. They know how to hold a good conversation, making it all the more enjoyable to be in her company.

Defining the Asian woman

People assume Asian women are alike, when that’s not the case at all.

There’s more to Asians than just the Chinese, Japanese, Koreans. Let’s not forget that Asia is the largest continent, and is home to these ethnic groups:

Central Asians, South Asians, West Asians, Southeast Asians, and East Asians.

With how diverse their beauties are, it’s hard to define what makes up an Asian woman. Each of them have their own distinct traits and unique identities, making them all the more beautiful.

So if your friends do think of them as anything less, you probably need new ones. You need to find yourself a good crowd to be with, one that will be more accepting of the person you love.

There’s no reason for you to go out there and get a partner who so happens to be Asian. Even if people were to look at you unfavorably for having an Asian partner, it wouldn’t matter much if you truly are in love.