Minor Details Asian Women Appreciate in a Man

So you want to charm that Asian girl you managed to land a date with, don’t you?

Let me tell you a story.

There once was a man who fell in love with an opera singer.

He was by no means a slacker when it comes to looks — in fact, he was quite dashing. But in comparison to all the other suitors she had, he had no distinguishable traits that made him stand out among the other men.

To remedy that, he had to devise a plan.

Unbeknownst to the opera singer’s enthusiastic fans, she had an insecurity that they aren’t well aware of — her lisp. Though this little speck of imperfection went unnoticed by many, this ordinary man noticed her struggle with the 19th letter of the alphabet.

Support. Sincerity. Solace. A few of the many words she can’t seem to speak into existence.

To cheer up his muse, he wrote down a crude but heartfelt song in the flimsiest piece of paper.

Now, what exactly does this have to do with winning over an Asian woman? The key secret here, my friend, lies in the man’s ability to impress her.

The song he composed didn’t have the letter “s.”

By simply being aware of her insecurity AND making her feel valid by writing a song without that godforsaken letter, she was able to see his appeal as a potential partner.

Wooing an Asian Woman

Asian women were brought up to be responsible people with good manners. With all the expectations put onto them by society, it’s only right for them to choose a husband who can meet their standards and needs.

Unfortunately, none of the men in her home country fit the bill.

Western men, on the other hand, are a lot more promising in the dating scene than the men in their society. But is that enough to win them over?

It’s not that difficult to get an Asian woman to like you. If you’re smooth enough, you might just be able to get a giggle out of them.

Getting them to see you as a potential partner, though, is a different story in itself.

Well fortunately for you, you’ve come to the right place. These women are gorgeous, well-mannered, and basically everything you’re looking for in a girl. Though, just to set proper expectations, it might take more effort than you are accustomed to with other women.

If you want to woo the woman of your dreams, you must pay keen attention to the little details. These are the ones that matter the most and leave a lasting impression.

Here are a few simple things you can do to appear more attractive to your date:

1. Don’t act like a know-it-all

If you try too hard to look smart, for sure you’ll drive off all the Asian women within a mile radius. Well that may be too much of an exaggeration, but you get the point.

Mansplaining won’t land you a second date. Might as well kiss your chances away, , for nothing irritates these women more than a pompous guy.

Even if you did your research, don’t claim to know better than her about her own home country. Let her talk. You’ll learn more about her that way.

2. Be humble

Asian women aren’t the most verbal of people, but they do appreciate a man who gives them the opportunity to talk about the things they’ve never talked about before.

Though sometimes we can’t help but get homesick, it’s not a good idea to compare how you live your life versus how she lives hers. You’ll come across as a braggart and as much as possible you want to avoid looking like one.

Unless she asks about it, don’t bring it up.

3. Don’t be too aggressive

Unfortunately, it can be difficult for Western men to understand the values of Asian culture. Sometimes, the natural instinct to be assertive comes through when you’re in a tight spot.

It may be hard to resist, but if you want to get her attention, lay low by keeping it cool and low-key. Don’t do something that would make you stick out like a sore thumb in public.

4. Immerse yourself in her culture

You’ve come to bag yourself a date with someone who was raised on the opposite side of the world, it’s only given for you to learn about her culture. Among all other things, Asian women greatly appreciate a man who takes a genuine interest in their culture

Failure to do so shall have you thrown into dungeons. Just kidding.

But seriously, do your research. It’ll help you a lot in navigating your way to places and people.

5. Pay respects to her family properly

With how diverse Asia is, it’s no surprise how each and every country in it has its own signs and gestures of respect for its elderly. Asian culture places a great deal of importance on family relationships.

If you’re dating a Thai, Filipino, or Chinese lady, it’s important that you learn about these signs and gestures at the very least.

6. Dress to impress

If you want to be attractive to Asian women, then dress the part.

That plain black shirt you’ve had for a couple of years might look decent enough for a date, but it isn’t guaranteed to sweep her off her feet.

Asian women like well-dressed guys in general, which is not surprising since most of the guys you encounter on the streets are either simple but stylish or dressed to the nines. They expect their dates to be just as well-dressed.

Winning her heart

It’s always the little things that matter the most.

But still, all this does not necessarily apply to all these women. Doing it tactlessly by the textbook might ruin your chances.

Like the man who wrote a song for his muse, you have to carefully observe what can be applied in the situation. With great effort and the right amount of romancing, you’ll be able to win her soon enough.